Little Willow ([info]slayground) wrote,
@ 2008-11-03 07:00:00
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Voting & Banned Books & Tolerance & Commercials & King & King

Blog the Vote logo made by Sarah Stevenson
Blog the Vote logo made by Sarah Stevenson


Blog the Vote: Why Voting Matters

Colleen and Lee set up a very special one-shot blogging event called Blog the Vote. This one-shot blog tour of November 3rd, 2008 encourages bloggers to post about why they personally think voting matters.

Anyone may participate. Leave the link to your Blog the Vote post with Colleen to ensure that it will be included in the round-up.

Want more backstory? Learn what inspired Colleen and Lee to create this blogging event.

Here's my entry:

Your Vote Counts

Every single vote counts.

Your vote counts.

If you are eligible to vote, please do. Registering only takes a few minutes. Voting only takes a few minutes. The result of those votes will have a direct impact on your life, your community, your nation, and your world.

If you are eligible, please become a registered voter. Become an active voter. Become an educated voter. Research the candidates, the propositions, the positions, and the topics addressed in this coming election so that you will really know everyone and everything on the ballot.

The location of your polling place is printed on the election-related pamphlet(s) you got in the mail. Bring that pamphlet and your ID card with you to the polls.

There's really no excuse not to vote. Do not say you're too busy to vote. Your voice, your mind, your rights, and your opportunities are important. Voting doesn't take that long. Tuesday has 24 hours in it, and many polling places are open at least 12 hours on Election Day. That means you have plenty of time to vote and plenty of time to work, sleep, and play. Please make the time to vote.

If you work and don't have that day off, don't worry. There are laws in the majority of the United States which grant employees time off to vote.

You can also go before or after work. Let me break it down for you: If you work mid-day or at night, go before work. If you work in the day, go after work. If your workplace is near your polling place, you might even go on your lunch break. Take a few minutes out of your day to prove that you are a proud, informed citizen.

For those unable to get to a polling place the day of the election, there are other ways to vote, such as absentee ballots and mail-in ballots, which you may fill out while in the comfort of your own home. You may wear your pajamas and eat ice cream while casting your vote for positions and propositions which will touch you, your family, your friends, and your country.

Do you know how many people, how many nations wish they could say the same?

I myself will have a full day of work followed by a full afternoon and evening of rehearsal. I will be running to my polling place during my rehearsal break, then coming back to the theatre.

I will be voting.

Voting & Banned Books & Tolerance & Commercials & King & King

Early in the month of October, I saw a television commercial in which a happy little girl comes home from school holding the picture book King & King. She tells her mother that she read this book in school where a prince marries a prince, and she learned it's okay for her to marry a princess.

But wait! Don't cheer yet! Just when you think this commercial is preaching tolerance and supporting the book, the mother takes the book, frowns, and shakes her head. Then a man walks on screen in front of the mother - a green screen effect with the previous setting happening on another screen behind him - and looks directly at the camera as he encourages the audience to vote yes on Prop 8, a proposition that would ban gay marriage.

No, Mr. Man in a Suit. I don't think so. I do not support book censorship, nor do I support intolerance.

If I were in that kitchen, I would show my I Read Banned Books! bracelet to Mr. Man in a Suit and Ms. Disapproving Mother, gently ask Ms. Disapproving Mother for the book, then sit down on the tiled floor, show the little girl the cover of King & King on the bracelet, and read the book to her again. Then I would tell her that she could read whatever she wanted to read and marry whomever she wanted to marry when she grows up. I would help her sound out big words in books and give her accurate definitions. I would tell her that you don't have to be married to be happy, but that if she finds someone that makes her happy and wants to get married, go for it. I would encourage her to follow her heart, wherever it may take her, as long as she doesn't hurt herself or anyone else. I would hope that she realized her potential and enjoyed life to the fullest.

We are given so many freedoms in America, freedoms that other countries and people do not have, freedoms that so many people have died for, freedoms which are remarkable and wonderful. We ought to celebrate and appreciate these freedoms.

I'm blogging about this because the commercial involved a children's book. Seeing King & King used like that, in a negative fashion - I just can't believe it. It's eerie to think that that lead-in could have been a good thing, had the mother smiled instead and said, "You're right, princess. When you grow up, you can marry the person you love, if that's what you want. May I read the book with you?"

I'm single, I'm straight, and I'm happy as I am. I think it should be legal for two people to get married if they want to get married, regardless of gender, race, height, eye color, hair color, or ring size. (Of course, I hope those getting married are of sound mind and the proper age, and that they truly want to get married.) If you fall in love with someone and have that person fall in love with you, then have a good, solid relationship, I think you're lucky, and I congratulate you.

On November 4th, I will be voting for tolerance.

I will be voting for freedom.

I will be voting.

A Commercial I Do Like

Liberty Mutual has a fantastic commercial about voting. Instead of being about political parties or propositions or 'sides,' it's simply about motivation and responsibility, about getting out there and voting. It features actress Teal Sherer and is available for viewing at the Liberty Mutual website, where they've given the spot the simple title of "Election."

Poll Your Kids: Getting Those Under 18 Involved in Elections and Politics

I learned of Take Our Daughters to the Polls, encouraged by The White House Project, from Claire Mysko's blog. She in turn learned of it for Deborah Reber. I guarantee that, after you watch this video, you will be moved not only to vote, but to take your children to the polls.

I have been active in Presidential elections in my own way even before I was old enough to vote. As a kid, I went to a few polls with my mom. I always knew exactly who I'd vote for, if I was old enough. I clearly remember bringing home a newsletter from school about the election of (insert year here) with the two Presidential candidates on the cover - and I had put a large 'X' over one of their faces and circled the other one. My mother, ever so awesome, didn't blink an eye. She encouraged me to talk about why I preferred one candidate over the other and really listened to what I had to say.

Once I was finally old enough to register, I did, and I have been happily, proudly casting my vote ever since!

Those of you reading this post that have kids: Please take them to the polls when you vote! :) Beforehand, talk to them about the voting process. Discuss the Presidential race as well as other items and propositions on the ballot, then let them cast their own votes in mock ballots.

...and those of you who aren't quite voting age: Please go to the polls with your parents or your older siblings or older friends!

If you do either of these things, as the parent/adult/voter or as the kid/teen/future voter, please feel free to leave comments on this post and tell me all about your voting experiences!

Responses to This Post

Thank you for all of the fantastic comments on this post. Keep them coming!

Adrienne, a librarian, commented that she's had to defend this book's presence in herlibrary's collection twice since she bought it. I told her she ought to carry it around at all times. Then I said: "What if you carried around a different banned book every day? Either select seven, one for each day of the week, or 365 (366 for leap year!), one for every day
of the year."

Sarah Rettger then added: "Carry it around and take a picture - I'm sure that could be turned into a great photocollage." I agreed. Sarah then took some fantastic pictures of people reading banned books.

If any of you out there in the land of blogs & books snap a picture of yourself & your kids/students/patrons reading or holding King & King or any other banned or challenged book, please post a link to the images in the comments below!

Other Bloggers Speak Up

Visit Chasing Ray for the comprehensive list of Blog the Vote posts. Thanks to Colleen, Lee, and Gregory for investing their time into this project and putting together that list.

Check out MotherReader's post about voting. She was kind enough to link to this post in her own.

Also read Christopher Golden's blog post asking Californians to vote no on 8 and vote no on H8TE.

Find out how and why various readergirlz divas rock the vote.

Related Posts at Bildungsroman
I Read Banned Books: Celebrating Intellectual Freedom and Literacy
Bildungsroman Tag: Banned Books

In closing:

Please vote on November 4th.

Thank you.



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Ugh
[info]bloodyyank.blogspot.com
2008-10-10 06:08 am UTC (link)
I heard about that commercial, and it made my stomach sink. Thanks for posting this, Little Willow.

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Re: Ugh
[info]slayground
2008-10-10 07:50 am UTC (link)
Thanks for commenting.

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[info]harshlightning
2008-10-10 06:12 am UTC (link)
I saw that commercial as well and was also very upset by it. I agree with everything you posted here (so much more eloquently than I could have) and am proud to call you my friend. Thank you for posting this. You rock, chica!

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 07:50 am UTC (link)
:) Thanks!

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[info]aka_becker
2008-10-10 06:37 am UTC (link)
One of the reasons I have major issues was the idea of Palin even asking a librarian about the possibility of banning books. Do people realize that both the freedom of speech and the freedom of religion are guaranteed in the same Amendment? One part cannot be used to down out the other. Banning is doing just that. Ugh.

As far this Prop 8, while I respect people for having their options, I do not like it when they use lies and misinformation to get others to agree. Like in this yes on 8 ad, all of which is debunked on the second ad.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNaHpHl3t8g
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-pSye9W7FY

I will be voting and I will be voting No on 8.

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 07:51 am UTC (link)
"Do people realize that both the freedom of speech and the freedom of religion are guaranteed in the same Amendment? One part cannot be used to down out the other. Banning is doing just that. Ugh."

YES! Thank you!

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[info]lagringa
2008-10-10 06:38 am UTC (link)
As someone who is leaving in about 90 minutes to catch a flight to San Francisco to attend my brother's wedding to his male partner of 15 years, I thank you. :-)

Colleen

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 07:52 am UTC (link)
Have a safe flight. May the event be everything they want!

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TadMack says:
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2008-10-10 11:18 am UTC (link)
Oh, no. The author of the book Must. Be. Crushed.
Is it even... legal to do that?! How truly awful.

Thanks for speaking up about this. Wow, how painful to have a book used that way.

And the person who said that freedom of speech and religion are linked by the same Amendment -- is SO RIGHT. Especially people who cherish religion or speech need to remember that.

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Re: TadMack says:
[info]slayground
2008-10-10 01:23 pm UTC (link)
I wish everyone cherished speech and valued communication as much as I do.

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[info]kimexclaimation
2008-10-10 12:16 pm UTC (link)
Someone needs to make "I beieve in Tolerance and I vote" bumper stickers.

I haven't seen this commercial. I don't watch a lot of tv these days and the stuff I watch usually runs Con 8 commercials. Thanks for sharing!

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 01:23 pm UTC (link)
Make the bumper stickers! Do it!

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[info]janni518
2008-10-10 12:41 pm UTC (link)
Beautiful post!

I'm quite proud to say that I have raised my kids in the fashion you describe. I also tell them that years from now that when their grandchildren ask what they did during this current civil rights movement, that I know they will be able to be proud of their answer.

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 01:24 pm UTC (link)
Kudos. :)

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[info]sarahsbooks
2008-10-10 01:41 pm UTC (link)
Oh, ew.

Piggyback post: http://sarahmillerbooks.blogspot.com/2008/10/double-dipping.html

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 02:45 pm UTC (link)
I was just thinking of you, so I'm not surprised that, moments later, your comment appeared here. :)

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[info]imcoolerthanu2
2008-10-10 01:47 pm UTC (link)
RAH! You go, Little Willow. I've had to defend this book's presence in my library's collection twice since I bought it. It's so dismaying, especially given the number of families with same-sex parents we see in here on a regular basis.

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 03:02 pm UTC (link)
Carry it around at all times. Ooh! What if you carried around a different banned book every day? Either select seven, one for each day of the week, or 365 (366 for leap year!), one for every day of the year.

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(Anonymous)
2008-10-10 03:15 pm UTC (link)
Carry it around and take a picture - I'm sure that could be turned into a great photocollage.

Thanks for this post, LW!

Sarah Rettger
(one of these days I'll find my LJ password and stop commenting as Anonymous, but it's not going to happen today)

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 03:40 pm UTC (link)
Hi Sarah!

Oh! Let's do that! I'm editing this post right now and adding a little note for those who would snap a picture of themselves and their kids/students/patrons with the book!

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(Anonymous)
2008-10-10 06:00 pm UTC (link)
Absolutely! I'm in my store tomorrow, so I'll see how many people I can talk into posing.

Sarah

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 03:21 am UTC (link)
Awesome! Thank you!

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(Anonymous)
2008-10-11 11:41 pm UTC (link)
What I did at work today: http://sarahrettger.blogspot.com/2008/10/whats-wrong-with-these-books.html

(Along with shelving and entering orders and cleaning up the ARCs and everything else that seems to accumulate when I'm not in the store... but this was the fun part!)

Sarah

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[info]slayground
2008-10-12 12:14 am UTC (link)
Fantastic pictures! I've added the link to my post. Thank you!

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It sounded so good...
[info]leewindauthor
2008-10-10 02:41 pm UTC (link)
Wow, I was all excited about the commercial you described, and I only wish it had ended the way you envisioned - with the Mom smiling, and telling her child that yup, she could follow her heart to happiness, too.

I think that having it end the way it did is such a familiar betrayal, to those of us who are Gay (or GLBTQ) because it's EXACTLY our experience - you're so full of joy at the blossoming of what is truly a natural emotion and then you're shot down, told it's wrong, taught to be ashamed, schooled to hate and bury and deny such an integral part of yourself.

Sigh.

I wonder if the child actor in that commercial will be in therapy years from now, trying to understand her role in all this. (And if she'll grow up to realize her heart leads her to love with another Princess?)

So yes, everyone - VOTE this one with your heart.

And thanks , Little Willow, for being such a powerful straight ally!

(When times are dark, we need each of us to BE the light!)

Namaste,
Lee

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Re: It sounded so good...
[info]slayground
2008-10-10 03:23 pm UTC (link)
Hi Lee! Yes, the beginning of the commercial was so promising - which made me all the more upset when it turned in that negative manner.

I hope that actress and her parents are informed and aware, tolerant and accepting.

You're welcome, and thank you. :)

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[info]as_king
2008-10-10 03:21 pm UTC (link)
Yay Little Willow!
As the sister of a sister with a wife, I couldn't agree more. I loathe how our society makes sexuality (whatever kind) seem unnatural, wrong, and shameful, when really, love is a wonderful thing, period! Yay love! Boo intolerance!

Amy

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[info]slayground
2008-10-10 03:38 pm UTC (link)
Love is love!

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(Anonymous)
2008-10-10 04:43 pm UTC (link)
Great Post, Little Willow!! Proposition 8 (and it's supporters) makes me sad. And more than a little mad.
Got my absentee ballot the other day-- can't wait to get started!

Alyson Noel

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 03:20 am UTC (link)
Woo hoo for the ballot! :)

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[info]millymarie
2008-10-10 09:15 pm UTC (link)
A belated comment, but a wonderful post!

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 03:21 am UTC (link)
Thanks!

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[info]thereadingtub
2008-10-10 11:51 pm UTC (link)
Another great post! The commercial is one of those reminders that fear is a powerful (and very ugly) force. As I read through your thoughts and the comments, Roosevelt's Four Freedoms speech popped into my head. Ironically, just the other day my daughter (7) announced that she was marrying a princess some day. An omen? Who knows. But we enjoyed the moment, happy that she wants to be in love, and we didn't say "no." Let's hope for a better world!

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 12:02 am UTC (link)
Thanks for reading it!

Kudos to you for being openminded and allowing your daughter to make up her own mind!

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(Anonymous)
2008-10-11 01:20 am UTC (link)
I youtubed the commercial in question and it just made me overwhelmingly sad. And then I came back and reread your post and got a good dose of hope. Wonderfully said, LW. Thank you for saying it.

courtney

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 01:50 am UTC (link)
Thanks, Courtney.

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[info]rrie_selavy
2008-10-11 05:39 am UTC (link)
...so, being the pessimist I am, I'm wondering the logistics of this. It's been a while since I've been in Communications Law, so could they show the cover/content of the book without the publisher's permission?

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 07:41 pm UTC (link)
I don't know. I hope the publisher is aware of this ad.

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[info]sharpegirl
2008-10-11 05:51 am UTC (link)
Woot.

Every time I see a Yes on Prop 8 sign, a red haze descends across my eyes.

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 07:38 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for the woot!

I am now singing The Sign by Ace of Base.

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[info]gottabook
2008-10-11 07:31 pm UTC (link)
Great post and great idea(s), too, LW. And yes... three weeks early for the November 3rd event at Chasing Ray, but I betcha a link can be part of that event! Voting matters, indeed.

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[info]slayground
2008-10-11 07:41 pm UTC (link)
Thank you.

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[info]hipwritermama
2008-10-12 02:29 pm UTC (link)
I haven't seen this commercial. I tried to find it, but realized I was wasting too much time looking for something that would probably irritate me.

Great post, LW!

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[info]slayground
2008-10-12 07:46 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, HWM!

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