One afternoon in the bookstore, a young woman in her late teens approached me and said, "Excuse me. Can you help me? I want some books like . . . " She named a few teen fiction titles that dealt with drug abuse and anorexia. She looked slightly uncomfortable but mostly excited. I told her that I could recommend many good books. Within minutes, she was sitting on the floor in the teen fiction section, a plastic basket full to the brim with books, with additional titles in her hand and next to her knees and her feet.
We had a great discussion. I was happy on any levels: happy that she felt comfortable enough to come to me, happy that she was open-minded, happy that I got some realistic, well-written books in her hand. This urged me to make a list of books dealing tough issues - eating disorders, loss and grieving, addiction, abuse, and so forth.
Due to subject matter, many of these books are recommended for older teens as well as adults, be they parents, teachers, librarians, or simply avid readers.
I've read every title on this list, and have given each book a rating according to the United States movie rating guide - G, PG, PG-13, or R - based on content
, and a number of stars - four being the best - based on quality (my personal opinion).PARENTAL ABUSE OR NEGLECT
- Physical or emotional abuse, alcoholism, etc.( Collapse )ABUSE BY OTHERS
- physical or emotional abuse; date or acquaintance rape; accusations, secrets and lies( Collapse )TEACHER/STUDENT RELATIONSHIPS
- be they romantic relationships or rumors or no romance, but a definite abuse of power( Collapse )POSITIVE & PLATONIC TEACHER/STUDENT RELATIONSHIPS
- teachers positively influencing and educating their pupils( Collapse )PARENT/CHILD RELATIONSHIPS
- reconnecting with or distancing oneself from absentee parents, dealing with restrictions and expectations( Collapse )LONG-LOST SIBLINGS
- reconnecting with siblings, or meeting them for the first time( Collapse )ORIENTATION AND/OR GENDER ROLES( Collapse )VIOLENCE AT SCHOOL( Collapse )EATING DISORDERS( Collapse )PHYSICAL DISORDERS/INJURIES/SPECIAL NEEDS
- protagonist, siblings, friends( Collapse )BODY CHANGES
- growing up and dealing with natural physical changes (as opposed to health, weight, or body image issues; disorders/injuries are in a separate list above this one)( Collapse )TEENAGE PREGNANCY
- may also deal with adoption and/or abortion( Collapse )TEENAGE ALCOHOLISM( Collapse )MENTAL ILLNESS OF A PARENT, RELATIVE, OR PEER( Collapse )DEPRESSION( Collapse )RECOVERY/SUPPORT GROUPS( Collapse )CUTTING( Collapse )STEALING( Collapse )DIVORCE, SEPARATION, AND/OR STEPFAMILIES
- parents dating, getting remarried, etc( Collapse )LOSS OR PHYSICAL ILLNESS OF A PARENT( Collapse )LOSS OR ILLNESS OF A SIBLING( Collapse )LOSS OR ILLNESS OF A FRIEND OR PEER( Collapse )LOSS OR ILLNESS OF A GRANDPARENT( Collapse )LOSS OR ILLNESS OF ANOTHER CLOSE RELATIVE AND/OR ADULT( Collapse )PROTAGONIST WITH AN ILLNESS( Collapse )DRUG ADDICTION( Collapse )CAR ACCIDENTS
(and similar accidents)( Collapse )INCARCERATION OF A RELATIVE( Collapse )ADOPTION
- Also foster care, group homes, and counseling( Collapse )KIDNAPPING( Collapse )CULTURAL IDENTITY( Collapse )SUICIDE OR SUICIDAL TENDENCIES( Collapse )ACADEMICS
- cheating, excelling, or otherwise dealing with academic pressure( Collapse )SOCIAL STATUS
- at school or otherwise with peers; popularity, bullying, et al.( Collapse )PEER PRESSURE( Collapse )RELIGION( Collapse )POLITICS( Collapse )ACTIVISM( Collapse )INTERNET SAFETY
- and/or cyberbullying( Collapse )SEEKING SHELTER
- family shelters, homelessness, runaways( Collapse )
I hope that this list helps readers of all ages find books they may be too shy to openly discuss with a bookseller or librarian. I want those readers to know they may leave a comment here and tell me which books they have found valuable. Most of all, I want them to know they can talk to their friends or adults they know in order to get the answers and help they may need.
If you would like for me to add more titles about a certain subject, or if you want more information about any of the books on the list, please leave a comment.
Special thanks to those who have shown their support of this list by offering me links, comments, and compliments, such as Jen Robinson
, Bookseller Chick
, Robin Brande
, Sassymonkey at BlogHer
, Daisy Whitney
, Bookstore People
, and Jennifer R. Hubbard